In this episode, for fun, I discuss LOVE, the Psychology of Dating and Mind Games. If you’re interested in why people love or, indeed, date the way they do… you’ll enjoy this episode.
What kind of Unhealthy Beliefs do we have?
I can only be happy with someone… never alone
I can only be attracted to someone who treats me badly
I can only be attracted to someone who I control
I can only be attracted to someone I can’t have
3 Types of Love
3 Types of Attachment Styles
How we create our Ideal Partner
Imprinting – parents
Reactive Imprinting – opposite of parents
Reactive Society Values
What Codependence is all about
Neediness for another
Addicted to person
Steroetypes and Idealized partners
Chemicals of Love
Why does no contact hurt so much?
Worst Case Scenario
Personal Banishment and Death, Cold Turkey
QUALITIES THAT YOU NEED